Ok so I had another dig around the loom and I found the female connection for the picture above, it was on the section of the loom next to the headlight so I'd been looking in the wrong spot :S I still don't get dash lights or ignition though so I've taken some pictures of the other bits I'm unsure of:
Exhibit A (has what looks like some vacum tubes attached)
Exhibit B (this makes a clicking sound when the main battery negative is first connected)
Exhibit C