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HandyAndy 23rd August 2012 09:34 PM

Personal Loss
 
I,d like to apologise for my lack of contribution to the forum over the last few weeks.
A few of you know that I look after my mum, sadly in the last few weeks I have needed to focus all my time to her.

Sadly , my mum passed away peacefully yesterday.

As I,m sure you can imagine, things are a little emotional here , & I have alot to deal with in the next week or two as not only have I lost my mum , I,m also her next of kin so lots to deal with etc.

I hope you don,t mind me making this thread/post ( my sincere apologies if you do), but alot of members on here have met my mum & she thoroughly enjoyed meeting each & every one of you, & making the cups of coffee when we were talking all things "Roadster", she was a major inspiration of my Roadster build & always enjoyed hearing of the discussions of other peoples builds & this forum in general, so , thankyou guys, your builds gave her enjoyment & interest.

best regards
Andy

twinturbo 23rd August 2012 09:40 PM

Sorry to hear that Andy, at least she is at peace now.

Take your time, sort your self out, recharge and come back and give us a shake up when your ready...

And always remember your welcome to pop over for bacon whenever you want (well as long as I am in ;) )

TT

The V8 Files 23rd August 2012 10:04 PM

Andy, so very sorry to hear of your loss, I wish you all the best over the coming weeks, and beyond of course.

Bruce

SeriesLandy 23rd August 2012 10:37 PM

I'm so sorry for you Andy. I hope that you and your family are ok, We all know you have been through a lot with her.

rpjg1975 23rd August 2012 10:50 PM

Bloody hell, sorry to hear that andy, thought she was back on the right road. I don't feel that you need to apologise for anything. I'm sure everyone here knows family comes first and nobody could blame you for putting the important things first.

You know where I am if you need help with anything. You only have to ask....

Russ

robo 23rd August 2012 11:24 PM

Sons and Mums its all a bit special, I hope you can pick up the pieces Andy.

Bob

tkpm 23rd August 2012 11:26 PM

Sorry to here of your loss Andy, some of us know what your going through.

Where all here for you when and if you need us.

Terry

K4KEV 24th August 2012 12:40 AM

So sad to here of your loss Andy...I know the pain it brings, but memories are a great medicine and you will find comfort as long as you take many many doses
hope to catch you and your mutts soon eh.

Spikehaus 24th August 2012 07:45 AM

Sincere condolences in the loss of your mother, we are all here for when you need us.

deezee 24th August 2012 08:27 AM

Really sorry to hear about your loss Andy. No need to worry that family came before a silly car forum :p everyone here understands the importance of family. Look forward to you coming back on here when you've dealt with this difficult time.

motomaniac 24th August 2012 01:05 PM

sorry to hear andy, thoughts are with you ...

TSM Locost 24th August 2012 02:43 PM

Sorry to hear about Mum as we all know that as a son you have done the best you could for her and i am sure that she is saying "thanks" for everything you have done for me.

There's no need to apologize for anything, I am sure that everyone here understands the importance of family.

Good luck, Mike.

BORNXenon 24th August 2012 03:37 PM

Don't know what to say mate, you have my most sincere condolences.

TheArf 24th August 2012 03:41 PM

Sincerest condolances Andy, I lost my dad 25 years ago, all I will say is it does get easier but it doesn't go away. You will always remember the good things, I know if he was around my build would have been finished by now, and a few k on the clock. Head up mate our thoughts are with you

Arfon

dogwood 24th August 2012 06:28 PM

Hey Andy.
Really sorry to hear your bad news bro.
Jill and my thought are with you and your family

David

flyerncle 24th August 2012 07:31 PM

Sad news Andy,I am glad I had the oppertunity to meet her and our thoughts are with you and yours.

mgglep 25th August 2012 08:28 AM

Sorry to hear of your loss andy

voucht 25th August 2012 08:44 AM

I'm so very sorry to hear that Andy. I know what you are going through. But she will be in your head and in your hart forever.
Don't worry about us, the forum and even the roadster, you have most important thing to deal with for now. But everybody will be happy to see you back here :) .

Richard Dryden 25th August 2012 10:35 PM

My most sincere condolences Andy, take some time to get through it, we'll all still be here when you call back.

Best wishes

Johno 26th August 2012 08:50 AM

As all the above.
Sorry to hear about your loss Andy..

Johno

Deanno 27th August 2012 01:35 PM

I'll second that Andy, were all here for you.
Regards
Dean

will_08 27th August 2012 03:26 PM

I'm deeply sorry for your loss Andy,

best wishes Will

baz-r 28th August 2012 09:12 PM

sorry for your loss andy am sure i can speak for everyone here and say our thorts are with you

Twin 28th August 2012 10:00 PM

Sorry for your loss Andy, my thoughts are with you & yours.

PorkChop 28th August 2012 10:42 PM

Very sorry to hear about your loss Andy and you have owt to apologise for.

My thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you.

Dave

Not Anumber 29th August 2012 11:09 AM

My sincere condolences Andy. You have devoted years of your life looking after her which is an incredible thing to have done and says a lot about who you are.

keith777 1st September 2012 01:26 PM

Just found this post Andy,deepest sympathy mate, Keith

monsterob 2nd September 2012 09:50 AM

so sorry to hear this andy . my thoughts are with you

tex 18th September 2012 11:46 AM

ahh bugger - sorry i missed your post andy - take care mate.. both thinkin of ya
terry n gill

HandyAndy 4th October 2012 07:40 PM

Thanks Guys
 
I,d like to thank you all for your kind words, on this post & by PM,s & emails too,
all of your kind words mean a great deal to me , more than I,m able to put down via a keyboard, so once again, Thanks guys .

The last few weeks have been a tough time, as I,m my mothers next of kin alot of things that needed dealing with became my responsibility, which has been harder than I first imagined, but, My mother would,ve been the first to say to me that now is the time for me to "get on with MY life " now , so, with that I can now say "I,m back ".

cheers
Andy

tex 4th October 2012 08:09 PM

thumbs up andy..........

Richard Dryden 4th October 2012 08:23 PM

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Great news Andy good to see you back.

The V8 Files 4th October 2012 08:35 PM

Nice to see you back Andy :)

K4KEV 4th October 2012 09:09 PM

welcome back Andy.... you have been a miss of late,

spud69 4th October 2012 09:41 PM

Good to see you back Andy, we can get back to the good old days again ;)

Regards......Andy

baz-r 4th October 2012 10:14 PM

welcome back andy good to hear your back and ok
time to get out in the garage and get that car of yours on the road.
im sure you could do with a few smiles an hour :cool:

Twin 4th October 2012 10:18 PM

Welcome back Sledge ;)

twinturbo 4th October 2012 10:34 PM

good to see you,

all you need to do is continue to remember your mum, continue to make her proud and live life for you and your family.


p.s. give me fair warning to buy bacon when its needed,


TT

motomaniac 5th October 2012 12:36 AM

good to have u back dude...

vmax1974 5th October 2012 07:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by spud69 (Post 78781)
Good to see you back Andy, we can get back to the good old days again ;)

+1 could not have put it better myself


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