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baz-r 10th January 2011 12:07 PM

sorry im struggling
 
just like to say sorry as i am struggleing to find the time for my build and forum time as my wife has been ill recovering from a miscarrage and is having a rough time dealing with the depression and things over the last 6 weeks or so :( .

hope nobody thinks i have vanished over cristmas :rolleyes:

the build has helped me take my mind off things just wish i had a bit more time, money and energy to get stuff done. also got a few tricky two people bits i need to get some help to do and i just dont know when i have the time free to arange anything :confused:

aerosam 10th January 2011 01:31 PM

Baz, can't imagine what you and your wife have been/are going through. It must be awful.

My build is also taking a regular back burner position as other more important things crop up, but it will get done eventually. But we haven't suffered anything as tragic as you.

Don't worry, there is no race to see who finished their roadster first.

Good luck, with everything, and as always, we're all here on the forum to help, so just give us a shout when you need us!

carlknight1982 10th January 2011 02:36 PM

Baz, Sympathies to you and your wife, but don't give up my build has survived 2 miscarriages a baby being born 2 moves a change of job and a divorce, remember it's costing nothing sat there and when you have a spare couple of quid adding to the pile of bits can help. I used to get an hour on a sat morning to work on mine at first it's amazing what you can acomplish with a little fore thought and planning. And these guys on here are a fantastic support network. Drop me a pm if you ever need an ear.

Davey 10th January 2011 02:43 PM

Baz you certainly don't owe any of us any apologies. We each have our own problems to deal with and we all do the best we can. I hope all goes well for you and your wife.

D.

HandyAndy 10th January 2011 03:29 PM

Sorry to hear of your tough times in the last few weeks, thoughts are with you & your wife.

best wishes
Andy

flyerncle 10th January 2011 09:25 PM

I can only echo all the above Baz and the health and well being of you both is number one,the car can wait.

Definately no need for sorry.

tkpm 10th January 2011 09:33 PM

Baz-r, i will be in Exeter in a couple weeks time, will pop round if you feel like having a visiter for an hour.

Terry

rapidtornado 10th January 2011 11:02 PM

Having been through the same situation twice I can understand how you are feeling, hope things work out for you both.

I live a bit away but if you need some help give me a shout and I'll drive down, my mate is from Exeter so he could travel down and visit family and I'm sure we could swing it with the misses' and take you out for a beer

Drop me a PM if you are interested no obligations though

Matt

Twin 11th January 2011 10:42 PM

Thinking of you both Baz

baz-r 13th January 2011 02:42 PM

thanks for all your kind words everyone it realy helps to read your posts :)

sometime it feels like your the only one who go's through thease things then it turns out loads of people around you have had simular probs.
i think half the trouble is we just dont talk about miscarrage's and it turns out to be quiet common

you know us blokes are bad when it comes to the rough times and its good to get thing off our chests once in a while. i realy do enjoy been part of the "comuneity" here and I had been missing my visits to the forum.

dont worry about my build its the only form of theripy i have at the moment :D


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