Apologies Baz but i must of missed this previously.
The loss of a child must be one of the hardest things a parent has to go through whether its born or not. A miscarriage many may think only bereaves the mother but it certainly doesn't. Its probably something you will never stop thinking and grieving over but it will get easier, happened to me and my ex 20 years ago but since we had 2 great kids together. Anja and myself, have been together 10 years and cannot have kids together and its not the same but its like most things if there is something you cant have you want it even more. Main reason why we are in the process of becoming approved foster carers before it's too late.
The build is certainly good therapy just make sure that Mrs Baz is okay.
All the Best.....Andrew
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