Went through this scenario myself/ourselves about 2 1/2 years ago and must admit that it hit her a lot harder than me for some reason.Already have 2 kids and a 3rd wasnt planned.The only real way i found is to realise that although not what you want to hear is that the body usually does it for a good reason usually because of a problem with the egg/foetus.Fortunately it was very early on into the pregnancy when it happen and no medical problems or issues arose.Approx 6 months later she was pregnant again and all went smoothly for the full term and now have a very bright and blue eyed blonde daughter,number 2!
The 1st born was 5 weeks prem but was a fit and healthy 3.2kg boy but number 2 was 6 weeks prem and had gastroschesis(hole next to belly button with intestines poking out) and had an operation within 30 mins of being born. Spent the first 2 weeks of her life in intensive care and was 2 kg when born.Now fit and healthy hyperchild so everything is all good.
Sorry for ramble just thought shows how life works out in the end.Also this is after she was told she would never have kids!! Now have 3!!
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