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30th January 2011, 08:34 PM
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Good to hear Baz,its a man thing to be macho but human to be vunerable.
There is no shame in either,the pain never goes away but gets easier to bear as time goes on. The members of this forum are second to none and if you feel the need to sound off or discuss your feelings you know its not a problem to do so on here. Best wishes to you both.
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30th January 2011, 09:31 PM
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Best wishes to you and your misses.
Leigh
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31st January 2011, 11:03 AM
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Apologies Baz but i must of missed this previously.
The loss of a child must be one of the hardest things a parent has to go through whether its born or not. A miscarriage many may think only bereaves the mother but it certainly doesn't. Its probably something you will never stop thinking and grieving over but it will get easier, happened to me and my ex 20 years ago but since we had 2 great kids together. Anja and myself, have been together 10 years and cannot have kids together and its not the same but its like most things if there is something you cant have you want it even more. Main reason why we are in the process of becoming approved foster carers before it's too late. The build is certainly good therapy just make sure that Mrs Baz is okay. All the Best.....Andrew
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31st January 2011, 01:35 PM
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Went through this scenario myself/ourselves about 2 1/2 years ago and must admit that it hit her a lot harder than me for some reason.Already have 2 kids and a 3rd wasnt planned.The only real way i found is to realise that although not what you want to hear is that the body usually does it for a good reason usually because of a problem with the egg/foetus.Fortunately it was very early on into the pregnancy when it happen and no medical problems or issues arose.Approx 6 months later she was pregnant again and all went smoothly for the full term and now have a very bright and blue eyed blonde daughter,number 2!
The 1st born was 5 weeks prem but was a fit and healthy 3.2kg boy but number 2 was 6 weeks prem and had gastroschesis(hole next to belly button with intestines poking out) and had an operation within 30 mins of being born. Spent the first 2 weeks of her life in intensive care and was 2 kg when born.Now fit and healthy hyperchild so everything is all good. Sorry for ramble just thought shows how life works out in the end.Also this is after she was told she would never have kids!! Now have 3!!
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